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The harsh truth that sets high-agency people free
Before we dive in, letâs quickly define what a âhigh agencyâ person actually is. I know I wasnât totally clear on it myself until not too long ago.
High agency is basically a mindset. Itâs when someone takes full ownership of their actions, their results, and the path theyâre on, no matter what obstacles show up. They believe they have the power to change their situation and donât wait around for permission or perfect conditions.
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Quote 1:
"The best way to predict the future is to create it."
- Peter Drucker ("the father of modern management")
Waiting for the right moment or perfect plan is a trap. And we all fall into it at some point in our lives. That is completely fine, but... The only way to shape whatâs ahead is by showing up and doing the work now. Every action, no matter how small, lays a brick in the foundation of whatâs to come. You donât need permission or a crystal-clear path. All you need is just direction, discipline, and the guts to move. Youâre not here to reactâyouâre here to lead. To lead your life the way it fits your needs. Decide what you want and go get it like itâs already yours.
Quote 2:
"The moment you accept total responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you gain the power to change anything."
- Hal Elrod (motivational self-help author)
Taking full responsibility for your life is uncomfortable, but itâs where real power begins. If you think about it, your life will always be controlled by somethingâbe it circumstances, surroundings, people around you, your family, or your boss. So, since someone will end up controlling your life, it might as well be you!
Ownership isnât about guilt. Itâs about freedom.
Once you own your situation, you realize youâre not stuck. You can shift your habits, mindset, and direction. Thatâs where transformation happens. No, itâs not overnight (I know, I wish it was), but it will come with permanent, small daily progress.
Itâs not easy, but itâs simple: own your life, and you unlock the ability to shape it into something better, stronger, and most importantly yours.
Quote 3:
"Donât ask for permission. Ask for forgiveness."
- Grace Hopper (pioneering computer scientist)
Sometimes, if you wait for permission, youâll be waiting forever. Itâs only naturalâwe were raised to ask for it. At home, from our parents. At school, from teachers. And later, in our careers, we follow company rules and wait for someone to say âgo.â
But most bold moves in lifeâwhether in business, creativity, or personal growthâdonât come with green lights or perfect timing. Youâve got to trust your gut, take initiative, and go for it.
Playing it safe might keep you comfortable, but it wonât get you far. Growth needs risk, action, and the guts to make a few mistakes. If your intention is clear and your heartâs in the right placeâact now and explain later.
On a personal note â This newsletter is a perfect example of me taking control over my life. After quitting my professional career as an athlete, there was a long period of searching for something that would fulfill me and take over me, just like being a rower for the national team did. However, life doesnât work that way. It wasnât until I actually tried different things and took bold actions that I came up with the idea of starting something like this gold youâre reading đ.
But even this project wouldnât have come into existence if I had taken the usual route of waiting until January, instead of starting in December when the idea hit me. Or if I had waited until Monday, as I originally planned, I might never have started this project. Thatâs why this email goes out every Wednesdayâit was just the day I ended up sending the first email on đ.

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