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Choose Your Hard: Navigate Life's Challenges with Purpose & Grit 💪
Three reminders to stop floating and start fighting.
Today’s word count: 556 words
Estimated reading time: 2 minutes 45 seconds
What is the time again…? Yes, it is time for some Wednesday juice! 🙂
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Quote 1:
“The good life is the one of constant struggle as we seek to overcome.”
- Friedrich Nitzsche (philosopher of will, power, becoming)
I know I chose to start off light this week…
Try to read that quote again and let it sit with you for a minute. Do you see the point? Do you understand that if there is no struggle to overcome, there is no point in living to begin with? It is in human nature to seek problems and difficulties in order to resolve them. After all, if we didn’t do that, we wouldn’t be as amazing as a species.
So go find a struggle that’s worth dealing with - and fight to overcome it.
Quote 2:
"You drown not by falling into a river, but by staying submerged in it."
- Paulo Coelho (spiritual novelist inspiring self-discovery)
I know the quote might sound a bit over the top, but think about how often we make a mistake, choose the wrong path in life, or simply do the wrong thing… and yet, even though we realize we need to make a change, we stay stuck in the same place.
Self-pity. Self-sabotage. Self-destruction.
These are things everyone falls into from time to time. But the major difference between those who prosper and those who don’t is how long they stay trapped in that cave of despair.
Stop. Get out of that cave. Make a move.
Quote 3:
“If you not choose your hard, your hard will choose you.”
- Unknown
And obviously, I saved the best for last!
Think of it this way: what happens if you don’t take responsibility for your job? You end up living a hard life financially. What happens if you don’t choose to be physically active? You end up dealing with pain and limitation, unable to use your body as you could. And what happens if you don’t eat good-quality food? You end up tired, unhealthy, and struggling with all sorts of preventable issues.
The conclusion is simple: life is hard. We’re not here to debate that. What we can debate, however, is which kind of hard we choose for ourselves.
On a personal note — After finishing my professional athletic career, there was a period that dragged on for several years where I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do or be in life. And that indecisiveness (as much as it gave me the freedom to explore) also limited me, because it kept me from finding satisfaction in anything I was doing.
Life inevitably forced me to make decisions and hard choices that weren’t aligned with what I truly wanted. And why is that? Because I wasn’t sure what I wanted in the first place. Probably the worst thing a person can do.
Learn from my mistakes.

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